<<knock at the door>>
Younger Me: Hello? (Sees two men in suits) I'm sorry, can I help you?
Man: Hello we're from (Religion's name confidential). Is there an adult at home? We were hoping to speak with someone.
Appa (appearing behind me): Oh hello there! Come in!
<<After an hour of entertaining, feeding, and making coffee for the two men and getting copies of pamphlets>>
Me: (Closing the door) Appa, why do you entertain these people? You know they're trying to convert us, right?
Appa: It's wrong to turn away people who have come searching out your home, especially those who have your best intentions. Veedu thedi vandhuvangakku oru pacha thanni kodu tharulana, namallukku miringukku yenna vidyaasam? If we don't give even a cup of water to someone who seeks out our home, what difference does it make between us and animals?
Me: (Rolling eyes) But do you accept what they preach?
Appa: Sure, why not? There's nothing wrong with what they believe.
Me: They why don't we just accept their faith and their teachings and cast away our own?
Appa: Religion. Faith. Belief. These aren't questions on an examination with right or wrong answers. The human experience makes each of our views on the divine different. They can vary from adoration to confusion to rejection. None of these experiences are "right" or "wrong".
Me: So we are all free to live as we choose?
Appa: We are all free to live as we choose as long as we cause no harm and share love. God is love personified, no? That love is why, whether they are a missionary or not, I always welcome a well-intentioned stranger into my home.
If we are candles, then we all burn at varying levels of brightness with different amounts of oil and wick. But when the wind of love blows, we must bow in that direction. It is in our nature to do so. As long as we listen to those values of love and fraternity, there really is no "wrong" answer in regards to the question of God.
There is no "wrong" way for a candle to burn.
Younger Me: Hello? (Sees two men in suits) I'm sorry, can I help you?
Man: Hello we're from (Religion's name confidential). Is there an adult at home? We were hoping to speak with someone.
Appa (appearing behind me): Oh hello there! Come in!
<<After an hour of entertaining, feeding, and making coffee for the two men and getting copies of pamphlets>>
Me: (Closing the door) Appa, why do you entertain these people? You know they're trying to convert us, right?
Me: (Rolling eyes) But do you accept what they preach?
Appa: Sure, why not? There's nothing wrong with what they believe.
Me: They why don't we just accept their faith and their teachings and cast away our own?
Appa: Religion. Faith. Belief. These aren't questions on an examination with right or wrong answers. The human experience makes each of our views on the divine different. They can vary from adoration to confusion to rejection. None of these experiences are "right" or "wrong".
Me: So we are all free to live as we choose?
If we are candles, then we all burn at varying levels of brightness with different amounts of oil and wick. But when the wind of love blows, we must bow in that direction. It is in our nature to do so. As long as we listen to those values of love and fraternity, there really is no "wrong" answer in regards to the question of God.
There is no "wrong" way for a candle to burn.


