Shoes

Me <<When I was 7 at the Temple in Pittsburgh>>: Appa...Why don't we wear shoes in Temple?

Appa: Well you know lots of Hindus believe it's because shoes are dirty.  There is a lot of truth to that. However, more importantly, by removing our shoes, we show humility.  We came into this world empty-handed and we leave it in the same manner.  Regardless of who we are in the outside world, we are all simple, barefoot devotees
before the Lord.  Since we treat our homes like temples as well, we enter them barefoot. Whether you are a king or a peasant in the outside world, within the home you are simply a family
member.  As a member, you are due the same respect...and expected to show the same respect...as every other member.

Me: I get it! <<smiling>>

Appa: (Getting serious) Our body and our soul are temples too.  Know the respect you are due.  IF someone tries to make you feel inadequate or inferior...know that you, like all humans, hold within you the same sanctity as the inner chambers of a Temple.  You should not only treat others with that respect, but you should always expect the same respect in return.

Me: Adho?...What happens if someone treats you badly?

Appa: <<Points to sign>>No shoes allowed beyond this point.  If your respect was not worth anything to them, then they aren't worth your time nor attention.